we all know living in the past can’t erase the bad memories. it is the very thing that destroys our present moment. as people would say: “you can’t change what has happened but rather you can fix your future” that isn’t true because none of us know the future as it hasn’t happened. what i…
Tag: emotionalhealth
The Power and Limits of Written Words
In small communities, everyone knows everyone’s business. When you work from home, the people behind the screen try to find the nerve that hits you and can damage your thoughts more than you can imagine. When I started this journey, words consumed me and that is why i chose the title: “imagine your words”. my…
You, Me, and the Person Within
yes, not in the order you would assumed but let me tell you a story. once upon a time, there was a girl. isn’t that the way they always start? not this story. there is a fine line between, feeling good in relationships and understanding happiness with another person. we sacrifice our needs and wants…
Emotions We Can’t Explain
How to find peace of mind when people are being difficult. Ever talk to those people that just know how to hit the pin right where it counts? I have many times, and today is one of those days. Belittling a person can be quite damaging, and I truly believe some people have no idea…
The Problem with Venting
A common understanding of why we can’t say what we want when we want. why the hell not? writing is a concept. it is in reality, verbal masturbation of one’s own thoughts and feelings. this is no different than blowing off steam in a physical way. what is all the fuss about? the world is…
A Glass Slipper
Fairy tales are meant to entertain, and little girls believe that some prince will show up and give her all the things she wants because she is beautiful and unique. The real world shows up and we, as women, are faced with the illusion that everything will be good as long as the bills are…